A positive relationship between a 4-H volunteer and member is an essential part of positive youth development. As youth develop, their needs within the relationship will likewise change to reflect their increasing maturity and abilities. As such, healthy developmental relationships shift power over time.
Express care for young people with simple actions such as being dependable, actively listening, being warm and encouraging
Provide support to young people by helping them break down tasks into smaller tasks, teaching skills, and helping them achieve their goals
Create opportunities for youth to lead
Connect a young person with new ideas and new people, to expand their horizons and open up new possibilities
Monitor conflict within a group and support conflict resolution by seeking input from youth in how to solve the conflict
Referenced from the 4-H Volunteer Training & Activity Guide, Oregon State University (2024).
Mixers to build relationships (Google Doc) - eight mixers to use in your program
Defining and developing youth voice (website)
Apply the Learning Guide - Developmental Relationships (Google Doc)
Fostering developmental relationships (PDF) - fact sheet
What does it mean to make a difference? - Youth Development Insight blog
Jeremy Freeman, volunteer systems director, jeremyf@umn.edu, 612-624-6807